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Happy Donate Life Month!

We educate, inspire, and activate the public to say yes to registering their decision to be an organ, eye, and tissue donor.

 ~ Mission Statement, Donate Life of America

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If you haven’t already registered to be an organ donor, do it today here!

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Sandra, Marisa, Erica, and I were streaming Modern Family the other night. It was a scene right out of the 1970s, when families gathered around the TV to watch their favorite shows. The smart TV screen is much bigger and clearer than my family’s 25-inch console in 1976, and there were no commercials. Otherwise, the vibe was the same. We were laughing out loud at every outrageous situation the show’s colorful characters created for themselves. 

Almost 16 years earlier, I couldn’t imagine that family scene unfolding. In 2010, we didn’t have such a large and sophisticated television, nor was streaming a regular part of our entertainment choices. Those aren’t the reasons for my lack of imagination. During that summer, I was in the ICU fighting for my life, uncertain if I would survive another day. God’s intervention, an amazing healthcare team, and a heart transplant in 2020 made our Modern Family binge night possible.

Before my health crisis, I wasn’t a registered organ donor. The thought never crossed my mind. I wasn’t alone. According to the Health Resources & Services Administration, about half of American adults are registered organ donors, about 170 million people. That sounds like a lot of people. On the downside, over 100,000 critically ill men, women, and children are waiting for an organ to save their lives. At least 13 people die every day as they wait.

In 2003, Donate Life of America, a national nonprofit organization, established and designated April as National Donate Life Month, “to honor deceased and living donors, encourage registration, and educate the public about the life-saving impact of donation.” Congress followed suit in 2024 by instituting an annual resolution recognizing and celebrating National Donate Life Month.

Since the 2010 health crisis and my 2020 heart transplant, organ donation is always on my mind. My post-transplant life has been full of faith, hope, love, activity, joy, sadness, anxiety, celebration, long walks, and extended periods of just living. All of these things were unimaginable a decade and a half ago. The very thought of living with a heart that wasn’t in my chest on the day I was born is profound. The fact that someone lost his life so I could live is humbling.

April is a special month for me. My transplant was on April 16. The nation honors organ donors and living donors and encourages everyone who’s able to register. I try to do my part, too. 

This year, Donate Life Month started two days early for me. On behalf of Transplant Recipients International Organization, I opened the 29th Annual Remember and Rejoice Ceremony before a standing-room-only St. Patrick’s Cathedral in New York City. On April 13, as a volunteer for Donor Network West, an organ procurement organization, I participated in the County of Santa Clara Board of Supervisors’ proclamation for Donate Life Month ceremony with a fellow Kaiser Santa Clara heart transplant patient. Before Donate Life Month ended, I had the honor of addressing construction industry leaders at the 10th Annual Hard Hats with Heart fundraiser sponsored by the American Heart Association.

The majestic cathedral in Midtown Manhattan, the board of supervisors chambers, and the elegant Claremont Hotel in Berkeley are all special places. Places I could never have imagined being in as a kid, much less after the Summer of 2010. Wearing tailored suits while rubbing elbows with national transplant advocacy leaders, local elected officials, and industry executives is cool.  

Despite the excitement of public pageantry, the best part of Donate Life Month 2026 was sitting with Sandra, Marisa, and Erica, and watching Jay, Gloria, Manny, Mitchell, Cameron, Lily, Claire, Phil, Haley, Alex, and Luke bring us joy, laughter, and happiness with their crazy onscreen antics. Without a selfless human being who thought of spreading God’s love by sharing his organs for the sake of strangers after he passed through this life, I wouldn’t have had that special moment with my family.  

Thank you to my anonymous donor and his family. Your love of humankind has changed many lives. I encourage everyone who’s reading this blog who hasn’t already registered to be an organ donor to register today here!

Happy Donate Life Month!

Fighting the Good Fight

There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens. ~Ecclesiastes 3:1

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Si Dios quiere (God willing). Con el favor de Dios (With God’s support). I think those were my mom’s two favorite phrases. She used them all the time. 

Me: “Mom, I don’t know how to say this. I was academically disqualified from San Jose State. I flunked out.”

Mom: “Don’t worry, mijo. You’ll figure things out con el favor de Dios. I know that you’ll get back in school and graduate, Si Dios quiere.” 

That’s not exactly how that conversation went, but you get the picture. Yeah, Mom was fluent in Spanglish. Regardless of what language she spoke, God was always in the conversation. She truly believed that everything happened for a reason. And, of course, God was making it all happen. The funny thing is that’s how it played out. I’m grateful that she was still alive to see me get married, start a family, graduate from college, and start a career.

Her worldview was, “Why worry about something you can’t control?” She was an easygoing woman of faith. Unfortunately, I didn’t get that quality from her. I always struggled when life’s storms shook things up. The darkest time in my life was immediately after the heart transplant in 2020. I know. It doesn’t make sense. I just got another shot at life. But, I’m not alone. According to Stanford University, “up to 63% of heart recipients develop anxiety and/or depression during the first post-transplant year.” 

My mind convinced me that I was useless and worthless. I could no longer provide for my family like I used to. My attempts to return to the community work I loved so much fell on deaf ears. It seemed like there wasn’t a place for me anymore. While Sandra and the girls steadfastly cheered me on and showered me with love and support, my distorted reasoning continued to remind me that I had nothing to offer them either.

My growing faith helped me understand that everything was in God’s hands and therapy restored my confidence that I still had value to my family and community. I had come to accept that a lucrative career was no longer viable and opportunities to share my community leadership skills were limited. While giving up isn’t in my DNA, I slowly began to realize that chasing windmills was fruitless and potentially harmful, as my health crisis so clearly demonstrated.

By mid-June 2023, things were looking up. I was working with the Latino Leadership Alliance (LLA) Academy training emerging civic leaders and working with high school students at The Foundation for Hispanic Education (TFHE) again. One day that summer, I was walking out of the dentist’s office when the caller ID on my cell phone displayed a number from a strange area code. It’s not my practice to answer calls from unknown sources. For some reason, I answered it.

“Hi Eddie, my name is Scott Leezer from the Honor the Gift Coalition.” Scott went on to describe his organization and explain how Medicare decided to no longer cover a critical blood test for transplant recipients. He heard that I benefited from the innovative test and asked if I was interested in going to Washington, D.C. to share my story with lawmakers. I was skeptical and asked a bunch of questions. A week later, I was on Capitol Hill. 

For three years, I worried about what would become of my post-transplant life. Sandra, who has the same strong faith as Mom, encouraged me to just go with it. God will reveal His plan for me in his time, she assured me. Within the span of a few months, LLA, TFHE, and a stranger named Scott Leezer came calling. God knew I was ready physically and mentally to re-engage with the world. There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.

I consciously approached these activities not with the same vigor, ambition, and urgency that I conducted my life before a massive heart attack changed everything. I proceeded with patience, gratitude, compassion, and humility. The day on Capitol Hill was special (see Honoring My Gift on ESEReport.com) and led to a second trip to Washington, D.C. in August 2023 with a larger group of fellow transplant warriors. We were fighting the good fight for a good cause.

The Honor the Gift Coalition is an alliance of 17 transplant support organizations. The campaign to restore Medicare coverage for the post-transplant blood test  caught the attention of influential leaders. Sen. Alex Padilla (D-CA), Rep. Anna Eshoo (D-CA), and Rep. Michael Burgess (R-TX) led a bipartisan group of lawmakers asking Medicare to justify its decision. Civil rights icon Rev. Al Sharpton, former Speaker of the House Newt Gingrich (R-GA), and legendary soul singer Al B. Sure! and his Health Equity in Transplantation Coalition joined the fight!

With the support of CURA Strategies, a Washinngton, D.C.-based public relations firm, the coalition led a group of over 140 transplant patients and caregivers on a march and rally in front of the Hubert H. Humphrey Building (home to the Human and Health Services Department) demanding that Medicare reverse its decision. I had the honor of representing transplant patients at a press conference held in the Canon House Building later that day.

In December 2023, Scott Leezer called again with another intriguing request. “Eddie, I bet I’m going to ask you a question that you probably never thought anyone would ever ask,” he started. Former Speaker Gingrich was looking for a patient voice to be a guest on his Newt’s World podcast. Would I be interested in sharing my story? Gingrich’s brand of right-wing Republican politics represents everything I believe is wrong with our country. After a long pause, I responded, “of course, for the cause.” Gingrich was gracious and a champion on the issue.

I went into the holidays feeling grateful for Sandra and the girls, friends and family, and for having the opportunity to do something meaningful in my life. The holidays were nice and uneventful. I didn’t give much thought to the whirlwind year of community service. I was invited back to work with LLA and TFHE in spring 2024. It seemed like my volunteer work in Washington, D.C. was done. Change in Washington is so slow. The professionals would carry the torch going forward.

Nine months later, I was back in Washington. This time it was to celebrate the Honor the Gift Coalition and the Health Equity in Transplantation Coalition’s successful campaign to overturn Medicare’s decision to stop covering the blood test. In an almost unprecedented move, Medicare changed its position on coverage. I stood alongside Rev. Al Sharpton, Al B. Sure!, and others to share my story yet once again.

The next morning, I took a walk around the White House before heading to the airport to catch a flight home. I reflected on so much. First and foremost, I made a commitment to follow Sandra and Mom’s advice to trust God’s plan and just go with it. Playing a small part in the Honor the Gift campaign was an experience of a lifetime. I met people from all over the country and opened my heart to make new friends. 

Walking by statues and  marveling at the majesty of the White House reminded me that we still live in a thriving democracy despite the political circus that threatens our existence. People do matter. We started this campaign with four people walking the marble halls of the Capitol trying to raise awareness about a wrong. The media and influential people joined the movement. The support grew exponentially until Medicare had no choice but to take notice. 

Even though a wrong was righted this time, these kinds of things are never truly over, especially during these politically uncertain times. The Washington, D.C. professionals will keep an eye on it. Thousands of new transplant recipients will benefit from the work. If ever called upon again to help, I’ll trust that God initiated the call. If my work on this issue is done, I’ll continue to live with faith, hope, and love, and stay in touch with friends new and old.